How To Win Friends And Influence People For Girls.

George Papashvily



It's all about making friends! The teenage years can be tricky - especially if you're a girl. Let's face it, girls deal with pressures and dilemmas that boys couldn't even dream of, let alone handle! In this indispensable guide teenage girls will learn the most powerful ways to influence others, defuse arguments, admit mistakes and make self-defining choices.

Donna Dale Carnegie, daughter of the motivational author and teacher Dale Carnegie, offers concrete advice for girls on topics such as:

- peer pressure

- gossip

- popularity

- maintaining friendships with boys

- commitment issues

- break-ups

Carnegie also provides solid advice for older teenagers beginning to explore their influence in the adult world, such as driving and handling interviews.

Full of fun quizzes, 'reality check' sections and real life examples, How to Win Friends and Influence People for Girls offers every teenage girl candid, insightful and timely advice on making friends and being a good friend.

What will you learn from this book

  1. Smile and Show Genuine Interest: A genuine smile and showing sincere interest in others can make a significant impact on relationships. It makes others feel valued and appreciated.

  2. Remember Names: Remembering and using someone's name in conversation is a simple yet powerful way to show respect and make a personal connection.

  3. Be a Good Listener: Encouraging others to talk about themselves and truly listening to them can build rapport and trust. Listening is a crucial part of effective communication.

  4. Encourage Others: Offering genuine compliments and encouragement can boost others' confidence and foster positive relationships. Focus on the strengths and positive traits of others.

  5. Avoid Criticism: Criticizing, condemning, or complaining about others can damage relationships. Instead, approach situations with understanding and constructive feedback.

  6. Show Empathy: Putting yourself in others' shoes and showing empathy helps in understanding their perspectives and feelings. This fosters stronger and more meaningful connections.

  7. Acknowledge Your Mistakes: Admitting your own mistakes and taking responsibility for them can build trust and respect. It shows humility and a willingness to improve.

  8. Seek Common Ground: Finding common interests and shared experiences can help in forming bonds and making conversations more engaging and relatable.

  9. Be Genuine: Authenticity is key in building lasting relationships. Being yourself and expressing genuine emotions can create a deeper connection with others.

  10. Influence Through Positive Reinforcement: Instead of trying to coerce or control others, use positive reinforcement to influence behavior. Encourage and motivate others by highlighting their positive actions and potential.

Language English
ISBN-10 0091906849
ISBN-13 9780091906849
No of pages 208
Font Size Medium
Book Publisher Vermilion
Published Date 05 Jan 2006

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Author : George Papashvily

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